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Social Disorder?
Replies: 1Last Post Oct. 6 8:36pm by rufoo
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I think I might have a minor one. Well at least when it comes to girls. I feel like the biggest pansy on the face of the earth. I just completely freeze up around most girls and am not smooth at all. What can I do? Here is my situation.

Ive been going to school with the same people for like 5 years now. There are approximately 250 people in my grade and because of my name (dont wanna reveal it here) people have heard of me. So right there everyone has heard of me. Anyway I dont have any girl friends and I dont talk to many girls. I guess back in middle school I was weird (I dont know how or why) but now Im different. Anyway as a result I have no friendships from back then and I find it extremely difficult to start making friendships with girls Ive known for years but never really talked to. I am chill with a lot of guys even popular ones but I dont chill with that many people. Like I can talk to most guys but not any girls. I just find it so awkward. What can I do?


4:54 pm on Oct. 6, 2008
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you're just shy.  
no Social Disorder Or so.  
I had that same feeling before. Girls back in middle school when I first started liking them , I got to the worry on if they actually judge you.  
But just have a convo with a girl as if you were talking to one of your guy friends.. w/o the Sex, (although some girls wouldnt mind ) , and what chick you wanna screw.  
Hows your weekend? Or How Are you? Is usually a good friendly start off. Start stating the "not too obvious but obvious "

ex . Dammmm honestly, I havent talked to you in forever.. how are you? I always see you in school but I never just had the chance or time to talk to you etc.

xP  

If you want, Bring a guy friend who usually talks to girls and try to be in the conversation.  
Dont let them intimadate you. If you think of it, they are just like guys but with a bigger chest, no penis, and have the power to reproduce.. but guess what? Who do they need to do that? hm hm?  
(straight up, I asked myself that once, And forreal, that help me break my confidence )

Post edited at 8:36 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 by rufoo

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